Addiction and Family FAQ

• How do I know my family member is addicted?
  There are many signs of addiction.
  
• How do I get help for a family member who may be addicted?
  Addiction is characterized by the inability to control the use of drugs, alcohol, sex, and/or gambling, despite negative consequences.
  
• What is an intervention?
  An intervention is a process wherein a group of family members, friends, coworkers, and others who are close to the individual come together to share their concerns regarding the individual’s addictive behavior.
  
• What kind of help is available for an addicted person?
  Generally, an interventionist will help a family explore options for the addict prior to the intervention.
  
• Why is family important to the recovery process?
  When family members work together to support one another, dysfunctional patterns can be transformed into healthier ways of interacting.
  
• My family member went to residential treatment, and now aftercare is recommended. Does my family member need aftercare?
  Aftercare may include outpatient therapy, 12 Step meetings, an extended-care facility, a sober living facility, etc.
  
• Why is addiction a family disease?
  Addiction is a family disease because it affects the entire family.
  
• What does enabling mean?
  

  Enabling occurs when loved ones try to “help” an addict, when in actuality they are not are not helping at all.  The family or friend is actually removing consequences from an addict’s behavior; these painful consequences are necessary to drive…

  
  
• How do family and friends stop enabling?
  Loved ones have to make difficult decisions if they are going to stop enabling.
  
• What are signs of relapse?
  Signs of relapse are similar to signs of addiction.